The permission you need
“I have decision paralysis. I am scared to make the next steps. I know something needs to change- I cant keep doing it the way I have been. But I am afraid of making an expensive or wrong next step. I don’t know WHAT I want.”
This is how my client this week felt before our Vision Session.
She thought she didn’t know WHAT she wanted or HOW to get it. But when I guided her into her *pinch me* future, it poured out of her with ease. She knew everything she wanted and I could barely keep up with writing it all down.
After I read it all back to her in the spell that cements it as possible and probable, I asked her how it it felt. “EXCEPTIONAL! I love it! really exciting!” she said.
But I could feel something keeping her from truly accepting it as her new path
“Do you give yourself radical permission to have this *pinch me* life you are dreaming of?” I asked.
<a long pause. >
“I WANT to. yes. but I don’t know how.”
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THIS is what is keeping her from boldly moving forward to the life she can already see and feel so clearly. She knows the “what” and she can see the “how”. But without this radical permission, she might keep putting obstacles or excuses in her way to keep her from actually getting what she wants.
So HOW do you give yourself radical permission?
You read the below out loud. Preferably to someone who can scream “HELL YES!” at the end with you. (bonus points if you read it to me in a voice memo on Instagram!)
“I give myself, <name>, RADICAL permission to boldly move towards the life of my dreams. I am officially in my LET IT RIP era, and I no longer give any fucks about what people think of me, messing up, or perfection. Am I going to stumble along the way? Absolutely! but I give myself permission to stumble. In fact, every time I stumble I will CELEBRATE the fact that I am choosing messy action over perfection paralysis.
I am creating my own reality. So I might as well make it as dreamy as possible! Why settle for mediocrity? If I have gotten this far in life, I am destined for things bigger and better than I can even imagine. BRING IT ON, baby!
When I stand in my own way or create unnecessary obstacles, I will anchor into this *pinch me* future vision and remember that I am a badass.
I am going to unapologetically trust myself and invest in myself. It’s not even a gamble. I am a SURE FUCKING THING!! If people don’t understand my decisions, I hold my vision and gently dismiss their judgements. I answer to no one but me and my future self. She is on FIRE and there is no stopping her.”
GOOSEBUMPS!!! Let me know how this feels to read! I promise this will shift things for you. Just watch what happens in your life!!
xoxo,
Rosemary
